Some tips for dating Cancer’s?
July 27, 2010 by admin
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I am a libra women attracted to and dating a Cancer male……wanting to keep it going.
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go to the bookstore and in the astrology section is a big book called relationships it will tell you what to do.
i need your ans too ive been with one for 3 yrs and still looking for you ans…
Hmmm. How about letting him pick the food? If you both decide to go to a restaurant. I find that always helps people be less moody, if they are prone to that (and Cancers are known for that)…
They like romantic things too, they have strong emotional and imaginative energy. Traditionally, water signs like water – how about a night on a river cruise, or a stroll on the beach…?
Actually, the one thing all my Cancer acquaintances seem to love the best is hanging around at home, snoozing and lazing about cosily together!
Hmm well you have to remember that you are an air sign, and in this case you must remember when dating a water sign (Cancer) not to be too sharp with words at any point. Most water signs need to be allowed to express their feelings in when they feel able to, if pushed they retreat inside their shell as such and tend to sulk. A Cancerian man will most likely be romantic but tends to not be overly so in public. Sometimes they shy away from very public venues with crowds of people. At times he might seem very distant but this mainly when he is needing time to think. They like appreciation when they show their natural kindess and caring and he will also be very instintive so never lie to him, even small ones. He will love sensuality even if it doesn’t lead to sex, and once in a realtionship and happy about it they can be very committed. Hence, he will expect loyalty from you and won’t tolerate you flirting with other guys. Deeply sentimental also, so can be easily hurt at times and they don’t recover from trauma easily, especially from childhood.
If you have a stressful or bad situation don’t lay it on him in one big load – he’ll hate that. Above all remember that you won’t always understand him, so don’t do the air-sign “I have to know” thing with him and start probing and digging. Your need for balance won’t always match his.
If you want more or to be more specific, feel free to email me. I’ll be happy to overlay your charts if you have the right info and take a closer look.
Oh man you are in for a hard time. They keep moving their requirements around, so you are constantly going to be in a position where you are trying to come to a fair decision. What works one day, is miserable the next.
First thing, Be patient and don’t lose your identity. Talk things through all the time.
Know when its time to leave them alone. Sometimes you won’t be able to get along so agree to catch up with them later. Don’t insist that they be with you
If they argue with you, don’t get sucked into it, let them say their piece and stick to your guns. IF you cant make a decision at that time, don’t.
Be patient and take the initiative when you fell comfortable about it, just be willing to back off if you get the wrong message
The secret of happiness comes from completely captivating communication
Good Luck
Make sure you can give him emotional sercurity-trust, loyalty. Don’t flirt with others, accept jealousy, be spontanious sometimes.
smother him with affection , make him good meals , cling on to him. nice backrubs work, just baby him to death. and dont be jealous. make him be the center of your attention